It will not be released in the UK..
I'm in the same boat and wanted to buy it, but after searching through google, I have found it's only being released in the US and 'some' countries in Europe.

There's only 1 crappy options that leaves us:
I assume if you know someone in the US, you can get them to buy it for you, and then send you it. Or use their address / details on EA.com.. Then use their account to d/l it.
You may be able to create a fake account and use a uk paypal to pay in $..

Maybe this will change as the date appraoches.. I hope so!
Why wouldn't they want to release it here?!